I am the kind of woman who can't stand drama. People whisper about others and talk badly behind people's backs. Sure have a bitch but don't allow it to be any more than that.
People piss me off and I know there will always be someone or something that does something but over time I have realized some things just aren't worth my time or energy.
Unless it directly affects me or impacts me I leave that shit alone. You can bring a whole world of mess into your own life by consuming other people's drama.
I just don't have time for it. With that being said I don't do drama in relationships either. So if something is bothering you tell me. I piss you off tell me. If you need something from me ask me if I have done anything to upset please just tell me. Don't make a fuss about stuff that can easily be spoken about and not ignored.
I don't like being ignored if something doesn't work out or we can't agree. Talk to me and tell me how you feel. There is no need to feel ashamed or scared to come to me and speak your mind.
Always do it in an open, understanding way, and speak the way you want to be spoken to. Because I promise if you think it will hurt you it most definitely will hurt me.
I will respect you more for speaking your mind, sharing your opinions, and simply being yourself around me.
I am not here to make your life difficult I am here to love and share everything with you. I want you to be able to live your life doing the things you love and enjoy.
You want to go to the pub for drinks... You want to stay home alone... You want to take a holiday... You want to enjoy time with your family... You want to just sort stuff out...
Please know it's OK to go.
I want you to. I need you to know I support you no matter what. I am not the kind of person to get upset about these kinds of things. Sure I want to do things together but I more than understand it is ok that we both be ourselves sometimes.
It is so important for me that you know that. I don't need drama or want any either. Life has enough struggles the last thing I want or need is the person who means the most to me to be one of them.
Freedom Of Her Love...
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