Once trust is broken it can never be fixed. Although it is possible to put it back together it will never be the same.
Cracks will show and there is a huge chance it could fall apart again because it lacks the strength to withhold what it could before.
Mindfulness isn't to be taken lightly when dealing with trust, loyalty, and honesty. These things are what build strong lasting bonds or relationships and without them, you really just have two people nothing more.
When you have trust you have everything and you are able to build a foundation for the future.
Trust is formed in many variable situations like sharing things, being honest when questions are asked, being true to the feelings you have and being put in a situation that doesn't quite sit right, and being able to say honestly I don't feel comfortable with that.
Some people give trust straight away and feel that it can be lost rather than gained while others give it once it is earned.
No two people are the same and for whatever reason they are moulded by past experiences on how trust is given or received it is ok.
Keep in mind everyone has boundaries on what they believe or don't is the right way to do things. Have those uncomfortable conversations with each other so you can voice the things you require in order to move forward.
There is always an underlying reason we are who we are but for your partner to understand that you have to really honest about who you are in the beginning.
Don't say things unless you mean them that is where trust is broken. Be transparent and show vulnerability that way your partner can see the real you.
Being honest will quickly help you decide who can handle your truths and who cannot. From my experience, it is better to be told the truth straight away and to my face, than be lied to over a period of time.
Being on the same level and page is more important than anything especially when it comes to growing with someone.
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