I absolutely understand... Life gets so crazy and the days go faster than we all hoped... You're facing stuff that takes so much time and energy.
And at the end of the day, you're exhausted. I guess the last thing you want to do is chat or explain how tough things are for you right now.
I understand and am probably one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet but I do have a point I reach when it comes down to respect.
So while I understand that you cannot contact me for days with an explanation or go weeks without explaining or having any contact. But not apologising when you finally make contact is unacceptable.
I hope that you don't take this the wrong way but I expect you to treat me the way I treat you. Both in an honest but respectful way.
Treating me in a way that you understand doesn't upset me or make me worry. If something has happened just tell me.
The last thing I need is for you to think I am not worth the explanation or apology. I sure as hell would never leave you feeling like this. I care about you too much to do such a thing.
And I can only assume without your explanation or apology you don't care. So please don't leave it to chance for me to feel that you don't. Talk to me and tell me stuff has been going on.
"I am sorry" will fix most situations and a simple explanation. I really need this from you... I hope you understand I will need to give you this too.
I sometimes need to take some time and not all the things I am going through at the time can be explained.
I may need a day or two or even a week to be able to share things with you.
But I will apologise and explain everything I promise. I hope this isn't too much to ask from you.
Understandable Explanations...
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